La Gran Aventura Day 156: Madrid to Jonesville

Wednesday, May 15, 2024

This morning was our earliest and best morning ever. We knew we did not want to miss our taxi or our flight home, and everyone was really motivated to get out on time. We woke up at three, and by 3:40am, we were packed up and ready to roll. There was a bit of confusion with the taxi situation (it’s not easy to schedule a 7 passenger van at 4am), but eventually we were able to get two taxis to come and get us at the temple and take us to the airport.

Air travel was pretty much a breeze. We checked all of our big backpacks onto the plane, so there wasn’t much to worry about.

We had a good flight from Madrid to Frankfurt, a reasonable layover, and then another pretty easy flight from Frankfurt to New York. It’s always a process coming back into the country through JFK, and the customs and security always seem to take longer than I anticipate, but we had plenty of time. There was a bit of confusion about flight delays, the departure time was a moving target for a while because of the weather, I think. But soon enough we were back in the air and headed for Jonesville.

When we arrived, we went and got our backpacks, and then took a shuttle to a short-term parking where our friends had left our Sequoia earlier in the day.

By then we were pretty hungry, so we found a Wendy’s and got some food, and then drove home.

We arrived home just around midnight and found a welcome home sign from the ward, a house that our renter had left spotless, and a stocked fridge and pantry that our friends had taken care of for us. It was the best welcome we could have hoped for.

This trip has been amazing. All told, we’ve covered

10,450 car miles

10,000 plane miles

3,467 train miles

513 hiking miles

That’s a total of 24,430 miles.

Just to put that into perspective, the circumference of the earth is about 24,901 miles. So it’s basically the distance equivalent of traveling around the world.

We also visited 10 countries, and slept in at least 62 different beds. That’s an average of a different bed every 2.5 days for 155 days. We visited 15 LDS temples and we went to church in 11 different LDS congregations. We saw the Louvre, the Eiffel Tower, the British Museum, Big Ben, the Rijksmuseum, Heidelberg Castle, St Mark’s Cathedral, St. Peter’s, the Roman Colloseum, the Sagrada Familia, the tomb of St James, and countless other monuments, museums, and churches.

We made new friends everywhere we went, and none of this would have been possible without the generosity of those friends and family who helped us along the way -- either by offering a place to stay, or helping identify one, or buying some of our granola or salsa, or keeping an eye on our home or cars, or helping take care of church and department responsibilities, or sending us a Venmo in the perfect time to cover a meal or a treat. We were also sustained at all times by well-wishes and prayers.

We’ve learned so much and grown so much, and now our thoughts turn to how can we share what we’ve learned in the future. I’ll continue to share photos as I am able to process them, and I’m trying to think of how to get down what we’ve been through in a book. Of course, if you have any questions for us about pilgrimage, sacred travel, the Camino, train travel in Europe, or anything else related to this Grand Adventure, don’t hesitate to reach out.

We love you all so much, and there will never be a way to fully express our gratitude for the ability to do this.

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La Gran Aventura Day 155: Madrid Temple

Tuesday, May 14, 2024

This morning I woke up with one goal in mind: get the laundry done. So I woke up early, and got it done :)

Then I went to the store and got some food for breakfast, and then I woke everyone up and we ate and got ready for the temple.

I love being in the Temple housing here in Madrid. This is where I attended the Missionary Training Center. This is the temple of my mission. I served in this area twice during my mission. I love this temple, and I love this area of Madrid. It’s as sacred as sacred can be for me.

Add to all that the fact that we are visiting this temple while celebrating our finishing the Camino, and that I get to be here with my kids. It’s just the best. There is no greater feeling. We’ve done baptisms in so many different temples around the world, but this one is definitely unforgettable.

Just after baptisms, we went back to the temple, and I picked up Betty and brought her to the temple to do an endowment session. The Madrid temple is so unique, and its Celestial Room is one of the most beautiful in the world. Betty is still not feeling well, but she seemed to really enjoy it. I just can’t explain how grateful I was to share this sacred experience here with Betty. It’s the perfect way to end this trip.

After our session, we had some lunch, and then I took all the kids to downtown Madrid to show them the sights. They were tired, and some weren’t super excited to go, but they ended up being good sports about it.   

The first place they wanted to see was El Corte Inglés. It’s a massive department store that takes up a few different buildings in Plaza de Sol. One entire building, for example, is just dedicated to shoes. Another is all clothing. And another is electronics, books, and toys. That was where we spent the majority of our time. Ian got a little Lego set, and River got a little toy.

After spending quite a bit of time there, we went for a little walk out to the Palace and back to the metro stop at Ópera.

It wasn’t much time in Madrid, but it was enough to give the kids a taste.

The rest of the evening was spent packing and organizing. We’ve got a very early flight tomorrow -- 5:55am -- so I hope things go well.

It’s going to be a very short night.

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La Gran Aventura Day 154: Santiago to Madrid

Monday, May 13, 2024

Today was a really tough day.

I woke up early and went out to explore the cathedral a bit. I took a couple of photos, and then I went into the church. It was about 7am, and the cathedral was mostly empty. I walked around a bit and then went down into the crypt to see James’s tomb. It’s a very narrow staircase down, a tiny passageway, and a barred doorway behind which lies the stone tomb of the apostle.

When I got there, the only other people there were what appeared to be a mother and her adult daughter there hugging and crying and kissing each other’s cheeks. I stayed back and let them have a moment. Then down the stairs came a man named Jaume, who was with us in the albergue in Reliegos -- where Ian fell out of bed. We shook hands, and then he knelt in front of the tomb and prayed. Again, I stood back.

Finally, I had a few moments alone with the tomb. I’m so grateful for James and all he did for Christ and the early saints. His sacrifice for Christ astounds me. I hope to meet him in person some day and thank him for all that he did.

After that, I went back to the albergue and woke everyone up.

Betty is really not feeling well. She’s weak, and her body aches, and she’s congested. But even still, she wanted to go out and explore with us -- despite the pouring rain.

First, we went out for breakfast. We all felt we had earned some delicious churros and chocolate. It took us a while, but eventually we found the famous Café Iacobus, and we were not disappointed. The chocolate was hot and thick, and the churros were crunchy.

Then, we went to the cathedral to visit the tomb together. By this time, the place was packed. We waited in a long line just to quickly move down the stairs and past the tomb. Then we went up other stairs for the “embrace of the apostle,” in which we were able to pass behind the statue of James that stands behind the altar, and put our hands on his shoulders. I’m sure for each pilgrim the experience is different. For me, it was similar to the kind of thank you I’d shared with him earlier.

After that visit, we explored in the cathedral museum. One of the highlights included some of the tapestries based on the cartoon paintings of Goya. But of course, the most amazing thing to see was the Pórtico da Gloria, which is the original doors of the cathedral -- before the newer Baroque facade was built right over the top of it to protect it. It depicts James and Jesus, Old Testament prophets and New Testament apostles. It’s one of the best-preserved and most beautiful pieces of Romanesque art in the world, and I’ve waited years to see it in person.

When we were done with that, we headed back to our albergue to snag a taxi to take us to the airport to rent our cars and get to Madrid. But apparently it was a really busy day for the taxis (because of the rain), and it took over an hour for us to get our ride.

It was mid-afternoon before we were finally ready to make the almost six hour drive to Madrid, which I’m sure was a challenge for Betty because she was feeling so crummy.

We made just one long stop to eat in a pulpería where the kids -- of their own volition -- ordered octopus. And they liked it!

We ended up getting to the Madrid Temple housing at about 11:30pm, then Betty and I dropped the kids off, and drove the cars to the airport to drop them off, and then took a cab back to the temple.

It has been a totally exhausting day. But we are all looking forward to visiting the temple tomorrow.

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La Gran Aventura Day 153: O Pedrouzo to Santiago to Compostela

Sunday, May 12, 2024

This morning many, many people in our albergue woke up very early (3-5am) in order to make it to Santiago in time for pilgrim’s mass at 11:30am. We decided we didn’t want to race in today, so we let everyone sleep in until 6am. By that time most pilgrims had left or or were leaving.

The walk to town was really fast. Betty hooked up with her friend Blanca, and they got out ahead of us, and the kids and I spent quite a bit of time just trying to catch up.

This was the first day on the Camino that we met other kids younger than the high-schoolers. It was a group of elementary students from Santiago walking as a class with their parents. Once every month they walk one section of the Camino from Sarria to Santiago, and today they were finishing their ten-month journey. It was a really cool sight to see.

Today, more than any other day, there was a river of pilgrims, and there was such excitement in the air.

We walked straight from Pedrouzo to the Monte de Gozo without a stop. It’s the last climb before Santiago, and from there you can see the city and the cathedral. It was quite a sight. Tradition says that the first person in your group to see the cathedral is King, and Ian has that honor. He was really proud of it.

Like many other days this week, today was a great reunion of so many people we’ve seen on the Camino. And we met new people as well.

After the Monte de Gozo, Betty needed a bathroom, so we stopped at a huge park just down the hill from it. Ian and River played for a while while the rest of us just took a little break.

After descending the Monte de Gozo, you lose sight of the cathedral for quite some time, and it’s a long and pretty boring road through town until you finally make it there. We hooked up with an American couple who really took to us, and they walked most of that part with us, but when we got really close to the cathedral, they told us that it was our moment and we should go through alone.

I was really grateful for that tender mercy.

You actually enter the plaza in front of the cathedral (called the Plaza do Obradoiro) from behind the cathedral, past the Puerta de Azabachería and then through the Arco del Palacio. In that tunnel, most of the day, there is a bagpipe player, and her timing for us was perfect. The kids went just a bit ahead of me and Betty, and we were able to record them as they entered the plaza, with the stirring music of bagpipes accompanying them. Betty and I were both overcome with emotion.

Inside the plaza we had more wonderful reunions with friends, some of them whom we just met in the past few days. We spent quite a bit of time there just taking pictures and chatting and taking it all in. It was joyous and full of love. I feel like we got just a little taste of heaven. The only thing that was missing were our friends and family from back home. I know they will be there when we cross the veil of death.

After the Plaza do Obradoiro, we went to the pilgrim’s office to pick up our Compostela and Certificate of Distance. These are official certificates (written in Latin). The Compostela verifies that we completed at least 100k of the Camino, and the Certificate of Distance verifies the distance we hiked. That certificate says 779, but I’m calling it an even 800 because my very reliable Apple Watch says we hiked a total of 820km. That’s over 512 miles. I can’t believe we made it.

The language of the Compostela reads:

The Chapter of this Holy Apostolic and Metropolitan Cathedral of Compostela, custodian of the seal of the Altar of St. James, to all the Faithful and pilgrims who arrive from anywhere on the Orb of the Earth with an attitude of devotion or because of a vow or promise make a pilgrimage to the Tomb of the Apostle, Our Patron Saint and Protector of Spain, recognises before all who observe this document that: …………… has devotedly visited this most sacred temple having done the last hundred kilometers on foot or on horseback or the last two hundred by bicycle with Christian sentiment (pietatis causa).

In witness whereof I present this document endorsed with the seal of this same Holy Church.

Issued in Santiago de Compostela on ……… of …………… year of our Lord ……….

The Dean of the Cathedral of Santiago.

Our albergue here is perfectly placed, just a few doors down from the pilgrim’s office and very close to the Plaza do Obradoiro. We also got our own room, and there was a really nice shower. What a relief.

Because it was Sunday, all of the supermarkets were closed, so we had to go to a restaurant for dinner. They were only serving pilgrim’s menus, which are pretty expensive, but it was the only option we had. Then, the most amazing thing happened. When I went to pay, the bartender told me the meal had already been payed for. I looked at Betty, and she shrugged her shoulders. I asked who had paid, and he told me that a pilgrim had come in, said hello to us, and then paid for the dinner. Then we remembered an LDS family (mother, brother, and adult son) who we had met going into the church. They had recognized Alicia’s FSY shirt!

In the evening we went to the Pilgrim’s mass. Unfortunately, Betty was really feeling down by this time. She was coming down with some kind of flu. We hung in as long as we could, but eventually we had to duck out.

Our plan tomorrow is to rent two cars (actually cheaper and faster than taking a bus or train) and drive to Madrid. I hope Betty’s feeling up to it.

I’m so grateful to be here. I’m so grateful for Betty and the kids for doing this with me. There is no way to adequately describe what this journey has been like. It has been challenging, and inspiring, and beautiful, and educational, but it’s difficult to describe exactly what we’ve learned. It will take some time to unpack it all.

Tonight, as the evening wound down, I went out to the Plaza do Obradoiro to see if I could get some good pictures. I’m not sure they turned out great, but it was good to be there. It is going to take a long time to get there, but over the weeks and months I’ll be processing and posting photos that I’ve taken with my good camera, so be ready for that.

When I returned, I felt an inexplicable feeling of melancholy. I looked back on the Camino and second-guessed a million decisions that I made from the very beginning. It was a dark feeling, and one I had a hard time getting out of.

But I did get out of it.

As I have been thinking back on my entries in this journal, I realize that I have been quite matter-of-fact about our experience. I know that I have mentioned a few miracles and tender mercies along the way, but I’m not sure if I have adequately described how much we have relied on the hand of the Lord throughout this entire journey. My prayers every morning and every night were fervent that God would give us the strength and safety necessary to finish this. In moments when I have felt pain and fatigue, my heart has turned to the great hymns, some of which come from our pioneer ancestors, and many of which we share with our Christian brothers and sisters: “How Firm a Foundation,” “Come, Come Ye Saints,” “Onward Christian Soldiers,” “Hope of Israel,” “Carry On!” “Lead, Kindly Light,” and so many others.

My heart has also turned to the sustaining prayers that I know have come from family and friends far and wide. Time after time I have felt the sustaining power of those prayers. They helped me on the ascent to Valcarlos, the Alto de Perdón, the Cruz de Ferro, O Cebreiro, and the Alto do Poio. They helped me on the brutal descents after each of those places. They helped me to help myself and my family navigate complicated feelings of fatigue, frustration, and almost crippling homesickness.

There is a saying on the Camino: “The Camino provides.” I never felt totally comfortable with that phrase because it’s God who provides, but then I remembered the scripture that says “I am the Way, the Truth, and the Light.” Christ is the Way, He is the Camino, and He has provided for us over, and over, and over again.

So the Camino is a metaphor for life, which is not (just?) a journey to Christ, it’s (also?) a journey with Him. He has been there all along.

One more thing to add, today is Anahi’s birthday. I love her so much, and I’m so happy that she has been with us on this journey. I know that the lessons she has learned here will serve her well throughout her life. She’s amazing, and I’m sure she will do amazing things in the future. But most of all, I just love being her dad.

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La Gran Aventura Day 152: Arzúa to Pedrouzo

Saturday, May 11, 2024

Despite everyone being exhausted, we actually got a pretty good start on the day. The walk to Pedrouzo was beautiful. And there seems to be some kind of divine work going on because we keep meeting people (like Paul and Carrie) that we haven’t seen since the beginning of the Camino. It’s so cool.

On the way out of Arzúa we ran into a little nun who was so excited to see River that she brought her into the little convent to say hello to the other nuns there. It was a sweet little moment for “la peregrina más joven del Camino.”

The best part of the day was that Anahi walked with our family the whole day, and we had a great time together. She’s so awesome.

River also did some good walking at the beginning, but after a fall and skinned knee she was done with that.

We got to our albergue much earlier than yesterday, which was a huge relief, but that didn’t last long because Betty and I got kind of frustrated with each other regarding our going home plans. Thankfully, we were able to sit down and make a plan, and now we know what’s going on. We’ve got tickets to go home on Wednesday. The end of this trip has been in the air for so long, it’s strange to finally know that in just a few days we’ll be going home.

Tonight we went to a delicious ice cream shop and celebrated Anahi’s birthday. Her actual birthday is tomorrow, but we decided to just celebrate a day early. I’m so glad she chose to walk with us today. And I’m so glad she’s part of our family. I can’t wait to see what the future holds for her.

Tomorrow we hike to Santiago.

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La Gran Aventura Day 151: Palas do Rei to Arzúa

Friday, May 10, 2024

This morning we got a good early start on the day, but the morning was pretty slow with lots of stops. We all felt a bit frustrated.

After a long lunch break, things picked up a bit, but it was just another really long day.

This afternoon I’ve been feeling a lot of emotions about the end of the Camino. I really wish we could continue to the sea. It would be such a great way to show Betty the appreciation that I feel for her, but it’s just not possible for us right now.

I also am feeling a bit frustrated with Anahi. She has spent so much of the trip walking far ahead of our family, trying to find people she can talk to. I LOVE that she has found ways to connect with people -- especially Dutch people -- but I feel like she never wants to be with the family. I want to connect with her, but I just can’t keep up with her pace when I’ve got River on my shoulders.

So tonight I pulled her aside, and we had a really good talk. I just told her how much I love her, and how I really want to connect with her, but how I need her to slow down and stay with our family in order for that to happen. I think it was a good talk, and I hope that tomorrow we can spend more time together.

On our way into town this afternoon, we ran into Paul and Carrie. They are from Australia, and we first met them (and last saw them) way back at the beginning of the Camion in Viana. That was day 7 of the Camino. They are super nice, and they said they’d been wondering how we were doing. It was such a happy reunion.

Betty and I went for a little walk tonight so she could collect more stamps for her pilgrim’s passport. She’s in a little competition with Alicia. It was good to just spend some time together.

We are sharing our albergue with that huge group of high school students from Sarria. The whole place smells like Axe Body Spray ;)

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La Gran Aventura Day 150: Portomarín to Palas de Rei

Thursday, May 9, 2024

Boy, 26 km never felt so long. Today was a really tough day. We are all so sore. A while ago, on the descent from Cruz de Ferro into Molinaseca I smashed my foot in a rock channel, and I think I damaged some ligaments. Most mornings it’s swollen, and today it was really sore. I told Betty that it’s sore, but I don’t want to tell her how sore it really is. I don’t think I really want to admit it to myself. But it’s pretty sore.

River walked a bunch more today -- riding on her “horse.” She’s awesome. It is a bit frustrating because she can only keep our pace for a short time, and then she needs to ride again, but she often will ask for just a minute more or five minutes more, and she will keep extending for as long as she can. Sometimes I just want to throw her on my shoulders so we can go a bit faster.

The hike in the morning was really beautiful. There was a thick fog over the river, and everything felt a bit mysterious and magical. But soon the sun came up, and into Palas de Rei felt like a crawl. Everyone was grumpy. I think we are just sore and tired.

After we got in (we got our own room again!) Betty and I went out for a salad and a chat. She would really love to keep hiking to Fisterra, the end of the world, where the Camino meets the sea. People say that before the bones of James were found in Santiago people would make pilgrimage all the way to the sea. Betty is from the coast in Mexico, and she feels a special connection to the sea. I’m just not sure if my body will hold up for another 4-5 days of 20 miles, and the kids are feeling petty ready to go home.

So we decided to counsel with the kids. We told them that we are so proud of what they have done, and if they want to go home after we reach Santiago, we will celebrate and go home. But if they want, we can walk a few extra days and go to the sea. Alicia struggled the most with the decision -- because she loves Betty and really wanted to support her -- but in the end, we decided it would be best for us to finish up in Santiago.

This whole conversation was a bit weird for me because Betty struggled for so long with the Camino. Just days before we came to Europe she was really hesitant about everything, and it wasn’t until about day 4 of the Camino that she started to change her opinion of things. Now she’s telling me she wants to come back with me to hike some sections and to make it to the sea. It’s remarkable.

Ian lost his inhaler tonight. I don’t have much hope of getting a new one if we can’t find this one. We’ll pray to find it and hope it turns up in the morning.

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La Gran Aventura Day 149: Sarria to Portomarín

Wednesday, May 8, 2024

This morning we started hiking in Sarria, which is the minimum distance a person has to hike in order to receive their Compostela, which is the official certificate of having done the Camino. It’s just about 100 kilometers from the end.

The vibe here has really changed. The streets are full of pilgrims who have decided to start their journey here. It’s easy to spot them. Their clothes are clean, their backpacks look fresh. Their shoes, especially, are spotless. And they are full of enthusiasm. It’s fun to see them, and to know that we’ve got just about 60 miles left.

Right when we got out this morning, there was a huge group of German pilgrims, and we walked right in the middle of them. They took a bunch of pictures of us, and then they applauded as we walked by. Our family really draws a lot of attention here.

After taking a photo at the iconic Sarria sign, we got into walking. Now the Camino has a steady flow of pilgrim traffic, and we are rarely on our own.

Today was also fun because we met some really great people. Among them was a father and son from Brazil who started just a couple of days after us in St Jean Pied de Port. They said they saw us weeks and weeks ago and had thought that we would never make it. They were so happy to see that we did. We also met some really nice Aussies, and another great Dutch woman. There is a huge group of high school students from Malaga -- like 80 of them. They only have 6 teachers, and they are walking full stages like us. The don’t have to carry their packs, but it’s still pretty legit. I’m mostly impressed at the courage of their teachers who would take on that kind of challenge. Betty spent quite a while talking to a couple of the young men, and they were really respectful. I suppose we’ll be seeing a lot of them over the next week. We also met a couple of really nice Argentine ladies. One of them is a doctor, and she helped Kimball with his sunburned ears.

River has now decided that rather than get a real horse, she will be OK with having a pretend one. Occasionally, she will tell me she wants to ride her horse, and I will set her down and she will gallop for a while. It’s working out OK and giving my shoulders a bit of a rest. The only problem is that when she gets tired, she doesn’t want to ride or walk. She just wants to be grumpy.

About halfway through the day today we hit the marker for 100k left. It feels like a huge accomplishment. We are really getting close now.

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