La Gran Aventura Day 86: Paris, Je T’aime!

Wednesday, March 6, 2024

This morning we all slept until after 9am.  It meant we got out of the house later than we had hoped (11am), but it was worth it to rest.

Dinah and her daughter Hann made us some amazing crepes and mango smoothies. And we got to meet David. He seems like a really great guy. We are so grateful for them. This house is perfect for us.

Our first stop of the day was the Louvre. It was amazing and we had way too little time for everything. We did get to see the Mona Lisa, and a ton of Jacques-Louis David paintings. Betty really like the Greek and Roman sculptures. I think my favorite was Winged Victory. We were there for 2.5 hours and barely scratched the surface.

Just one thought on the Mona Lisa. The amount of attention it gets is absurd, and sparked a good discussion with Betty and the kids. Why, of all the beautiful masterpieces in this incredible museum, does it get the attention it gets? Masses of people. You can barely get close to it. It's certainly not the best or the most beautiful. It's just the most famous. And honestly, it's famous for being famous. In that way I guess you could say it's the Kardashian of paintings.

After the Louvre we did a long walk down the Tuileries and then along the Seine to Trocadero, where we got some great pictures of the Eiffel Tower.

From there we hopped on the metro and popped out to see Notre Dame. I wish it was open, but it was damaged in a fire a few years ago and is still being restored. But we got a picture.

Then we grabbed a croissant and a muffin and some banana bread and a cookie from a shop on the corner. And we hopped back on the train up to Montmartre.

Train travel has been a bit of a mixed bag so far. I’m so used to it, but the kids definitely aren’t. On the first train of the day Alicia had a hard time getting off at our stop, and she ended up having to push a lady out of the way to make it. A later train was so packed I thought I'd lose someone. Wall to wall people pressed hard body to body. We were literally squeezing on and a guy was stuck in the closing doors.

But we also had some really great experiences. One lady was super nice and let Betty and River sit in her spot. Then later one of the kids let another guy sit down -- he had a sore foot. So then when we got to Montmartre that guy showed us the way to get to the train. It was a nice circle of kindness thing. When we left that train the lady gave us the warmest smile and made a heart shape with her hands.

I had a vision in my mind of what the view from Montmartre would be like, and while the sunset was amazing -- it wasn’t quite what I had imagined. But it really was beautiful. We took a few pictures and we poked our heads in to the church, which is amazing, but they were in mass so we ducked back out. In many churches I’ve visited, they won’t even let you in if they are in mass, but there were lots of tourists around snapping pictures and just milling about. I didn’t love that, and I didn’t want any part of it. It's just too sacred a thing.

On our way back down the hill toward the train station Betty spied a Lebanese ice cream shop called Bachir. It was amazing. I had rose petal and a special kind of ice cream called fleur de lait, which is what mozzarella cheese is called. I have no idea how they made mozzarella cheese ice cream (if that’s even what it is), but it was super delicious.

River ended up having a little accident in her pants at the ice cream place, and since there are practically no public restrooms in Paris, we just decided to head home.

Oh, and on our way our kids got to see a bit more of crazy city night-life -- including a drunk lady who randomly stopped traffic and was yelling “Je n’aime pas!” (I don’t love!) and a sketchy guy who was getting ready to grab at Anahi before we noticed.

It was an exciting day!

Just before sleep I read these couple of verses from Isaiah in Book of Mormon:

2 Nephi: 22:2 Behold, God is my salvation; I will trust, and not be afraid; for the Lord Jehovah is my strength and my song; he also has become my salvation.

I have such a tendency to freeze up when I face challenges. Whether it's paying a bill or making a tough phone call as bishop, or planning this adventure. Right now I'm a little stuck on what happens for us after London. But I'm trying to learn to lean into the challenge. So tomorrow I'm going to push forward and make more plans.

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La Gran Aventura Day 86: Versailles and the Temple

Tuesday March 5, 2024

We made it to Paris. The flight went pretty well. River got overtired and was a little whiney for a bit, but eventually she and Betty got at least a tiny bit of sleep. Not much, but just a bit.

Kimball (unsurprisingly) slept nearly the whole way here. The girls got some sleep, and Ian just stared blankly at the screen all night. I slept maybe an hour or two, but I feel pretty good.

Navigating the train station at the airport was a nightmare. It’s super expensive, and I couldn’t figure out what tickets to buy. Eventually, I decided to just get simple tickets from the airport to Versailles. It was still a bunch, but it didn’t make me want to punch myself in the face.

I’ll figure out the rest tomorrow.

It’s a pretty long train ride from the airport to Versailles, and we only almost lost one kid (Alicia) one time. She learned that she needs to be aggressive getting off a full train.

By the time we got to Versailles, everyone was tired. It’s only about 1.5 miles from the station to the temple, but it felt like more. River and Betty are especially beat.

But we made it there, and we dropped off our backpacks. It’s tough to keep the kids from napping. But I know if they do we will be better with the jet lag.

River was done walking when we left the temple, so I carried her here and then around the gardens. She was asleep most of the time. I feel like those ladies who balance the water jugs on their heads when she is like that.

Now we are just waiting in line to go into the palace. I hope I can get some more pictures. I didn’t get really any of the gardens. Maybe after we leave the palace I can get back out there.

Update: After the palace Kimball and I ran out to take some pictures of the gardens. I really wanted to see the Queen’s Hamlet. So we literally ran all the way out there only to find out that you have to have a ticket, so that whole part was a bust. But I think I got some good pics of the gardens.

When we got back to the palace, the girls were gone. They had become impatient and gone out looking for us. So we went back out and found them. Alicia was super annoyed, but we made the long trek back to the temple just in time for our baptism appointment.

In the temple the kids were so tired they couldn’t keep their eyes open. It was comical. Ian fell asleep so hard and fast at one point that he smacked his head on a bench!

The temple workers were so kind, and it was a joy to be in the temple. As we were getting ready to leave, it started to rain, and I went out and got some nice blue-hour pictures of the temple.

Finally, we took a bus out to Le Vésinet, where our new friends David and Dinah Sluss live. Dinah and her daughter Hann were so kind to us. The kids didn’t last long. Ian and Alicia didn’t make it through dinner without falling asleep.

It was a good and very tiring first day.

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La Gran Aventura Day 85: Jonesville to Paris

Monday, March 4, 2024

Here we are. On the plane, flying to Paris. Things have gone really well so far. The kids have had really great attitudes about things, and Betty seems calm. Packing this morning was a dream. The kids had everything ready. I was able to get the car washed, and Chris Condon took us to the airport. I wish she could come with us. I could use her calm.

With France and England mostly planned, it’s really time to turn my attention to the rest of the trip. Holland. Germany. Italy. Switzerland. It’s all going to go really fast I’m sure. I’ve been in contact this afternoon with Veroniek in Holland, and Cinthia in Germany, and Lisa in Italy. And Anna Vincenzi has procured a place for us to stay at a parish in the heart of Rome. I think it will be really cool. What an experience!

On the flight to DC from Detroit I spent a bunch of time writing, and I’m nearly completely caught up. That feels good.

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La Gran Aventura Day 84: Fast Sunday

Sunday, March 3, 2024

Today is Sunday. It should be a day of rest, and I’d love for us to treat it like that. I’m not sure any of us have a really great idea of what kind of challenge we have before us. I just keep reminding myself that the challenge is an opportunity to grow. Everyone in our family has so much room for that -- myself included. I like to think that I’m a super-experienced traveler, but today I feel like a total novice. I’m not sure anything could adequately prepare us for what we are about to do. We just have to keep moving forward. That will be my greatest challenge. I can’t afford to get paralyzed.

This morning I read this scripture from 2 Nephi 18:18:

> Behold, I and the children whom the Lord hath given me are for signs and for wonders in Israel from the Lord of Hosts, which dwelleth in Mount Zion.

It really struck me. I want to be able to show how God works through us to help people orient towards Him.

Our testimony meeting was really great. I was able to share some thoughts I’ve had recently -- especially related to consecration. I am coming to realize more and more what it means and how it governs everything for us. We also had just excellent testimonies from Alicia, Anahi, Loretta Baker -- who said that God and the bishopric are her buddies -- and others.

In the afternoon we had dinner at the Kremin’s house. They and the Bells are such dear friends for us.

And then the evening was spent packing and taking care of last-minute details. Tomorrow morning the kids have seminary, and then we will be off to the airport.

I can’t believe it’s here.

La Gran Aventura Day 83: Final Preparations

Saturday, March 2, 2024

Today we got an early start again. I think Betty isn’t sleeping well.

Today was a pretty intense preparation day. I went back over everyone’s packing list with them. The kids are light years ahead of where they were three months ago. They know how and what to pack. The system we have with Reminders is still working great.

Even with all that, it’s still just a process.

Oh, and the kids were gone at friends’ houses most of the day. In the afternoon we went over to the White’s house. Jared made some delicious armadillo eggs. It was good to just visit with them.

In the evening Betty ran up to Jackson, and I stayed and the kids and I did a cleanup of the house. The kids did a great job, and we are pretty nearly ready to hit the road on Monday.

In the later night, we watched BYU play TCU in basketball. We started really poorly, and found ourselves with a huge halftime deficit. But the guys just kept playing hard, came back, and eventually won big. It was amazing. I’ve seen BYU play really well at times in my life, but I’ve never seen a team quite like this one.

And after that we finished the 11th season of The Great British Baking Show. We were all so happy to see Matty, a guy who always jokes about how he has no idea what he is doing, win the whole thing. It was a testament to grit and determination and just throwing caution to the wind.

I feel like it’s the right message for us now.

La Gran Aventura Day 82: Pizza night with the Condon’s

Friday, March 1, 2024

I spent most of the morning trying to figure out how our Eurail passes will work. Unfortunately, there are some extra reservation fees that we have to pay each time we travel between countries, but we are in this thing now.

Betty went to the temple this morning with Chris Condon and Crystal Bahr. It is just what she needs: some time with friends and with the Lord in His house. She also had lunch with Gabby Moss.

While I was working on my laptop, River wanted to do yoga. She is the cutest.

Also while I was working it dawned on me that our Sapphire Preferred credit cards -- which have no overseas transaction fees -- will expire while we are gone. Chase will overnight them to us. I also realized that I can’t find my Chase debit card. That is a huge problem. Hopefully Betty knows where they are.

At lunchtime I took the kids to the college for LDSSA lunch. We saw Roger Butters there. He said we will never regret the money spent on this trip. It’s worth mortgaging the house for. We might have to do it.

In the afternoon Betty and I met up at Aaa in Jackson to get our international drivers licenses. Now we can borrow or rent and have a little extra protection.

Tonight we had dinner with the Condon’s. We love our pizza nights with them. It’s as comfortable and uplifting as dinner can ever be with friends. We have missed them dearly, and we will miss them on the next leg of this journey.

We finished the day watching a few more minutes of The Longest Day. The kids seem to enjoy it, but it makes everyone really sleepy. I just want them to appreciate Normandy as much as possible.

La Gran Aventura Day 81: Planning

Thursday, February 29, 2024

Today I spent a bunch of time on itinerary plans. It feels like two steps forward and one step back. Plans are made and unmade as fast as I can get them.

In the day I went to the office and had lunch with Josh Burnett. He’s such a good kid. I love working with him.

I was also able finally just sit and blog, and I got myself caught up a bunch of the way. I’m so grateful.

But I was able to help things to calm down, and we had a nice evening. We actually finished it up by watching the first 20 min or so of The Longest Day -- in preparation for our trip to Omaha Beach.

I’m stressing a bit about the train situation in Europe. It’s not a very straightforward process to get everything going.

Oh, and one more thing. Anna Vincenzi has got a lead on some lodging in Rome. With a priest. That could be really cool I think.

La Gran Aventura Day 80: Tough nights

Wednesday, February 28, 2024

Today was a good day. I did some work in the morning, and then Betty and I went to Ann Arbor. REI has been our salvation, but it also feels like it will be the death of me. Then we came back and had dinner with the Bahr’s and then it was off to church activities. And then we finished things off with a long talk with a frustrated Alicia. It feels like this happens pretty much every night now. Alicia gets upset about something, and we have to just work through it. But I’m learning that if we just take the time to work through things, we can always find peace again. I’m not afraid of it anymore. It just takes some effort.